The Beginning: Mitchell Moses on Meeting Bri Gardoni
When I first met Bri Gardoni, Iāll be honestāI didnāt think too much of it. She wasnāt what I expected, not at all. At that time in my life, everything revolved around football. The NRL was more than a job; it was my world. I was chasing dreams, goals, trophiesāwhatever came with the grind. My head was in the game, my focus on the next match, the next opponent, the next step toward something bigger. Romance? That wasnāt on my radar.
But Bri walked into my life like a quiet melody I didnāt know I needed to hear. Not loud, not flamboyant, just⦠real. There was something about her calm that cut through the noise I lived in. I was used to chaosātraining sessions, press conferences, fans, the constant movement that came with being in the spotlight. My life was structured but unpredictable. Bri, on the other hand, was steady. Firm. Thoughtful. Sincere.
The first time we really spoke, I remember thinking how different she was. No pretense. No games. She wasnāt impressed by status or the headlines. She asked questions about life, not sport. She listened, really listened, in a way that made me realize how much noise surrounded me every day. In her presence, everything slowed down.
In those early days, I didnāt see it as the start of something serious. I thought it was a good connection, maybe even a distraction from the grind. But the more time we spent together, the more I started to understand what it meant to have someone truly see youānot the athlete, not the public figure, just the person underneath all that. She saw Mitchell, not āMoses.ā
There were times when I struggled with balanceātrying to be present in a relationship while giving my all to the sport that defined me. But Bri never asked me to choose. She just supported, in ways that often went unnoticed but meant everything. She celebrated the wins quietly, comforted me through the losses even quieter.
What I admired most was her patience. The football world can be demanding, and not everyone understands that kind of lifestyleāthe early mornings, the long nights, the travel, the mental toll. But Bri did. She didnāt try to compete with my career; she complemented it. She became my grounding force, the calm after every storm.
Thereās a moment Iāll never forgetāafter a tough loss that had the media on my back, the critics loud as ever. I came home frustrated, angry at myself, questioning everything. Bri didnāt offer clichĆ©s or empty reassurances. She just sat next to me, held my hand, and said, āYouāre allowed to feel itābut donāt let it define you.ā That sentence stuck with me. Because for someone outside the sport, she understood more about it than most people in it.
Over time, what started as a quiet connection turned into something deepāsomething I didnāt expect but learned to cherish. We built a life that wasnāt about fame or cameras. It was about momentsālate-night talks, shared meals, planning for a future that neither of us had fully imagined at first.
And then came the biggest surprise of allāthe pregnancy. To be honest, it was a shock. I didnāt plan for it so soon. My mind was still wired for the next season, the next challenge. But life has a way of throwing you what you need, not what you expect.
When Bri told me, I remember going silent. Not because I was scared, but because everything suddenly felt realāmore real than any final or title Iād ever played for. We were about to start a chapter that no playbook could prepare me for.
Watching her through the pregnancy changed me. The strength, the grace, the patience she carriedāit redefined my idea of what toughness means. In sport, we talk about resilience, but she embodied it in ways words canāt describe. Every day, she reminded me that the biggest victories in life donāt happen on the field.
Now, when I look at her, I see more than the woman who walked into my life unexpectedly. I see a partner, a mother, a pillar. Someone who made me see the value in slowing down, in feeling deeply, in appreciating the small moments that make the big ones matter.
Sometimes I think about how easily I couldāve missed it all if Iād stayed too focused on the game, too distracted by the world around me. But fateāwhatever you want to call itāhad other plans. Bri wasnāt the kind of person who came into my life for a season. She came in for good.
People often ask what keeps me grounded, how I stay focused through the highs and lows of football. The answer is simple nowāitās her. Itās us. Itās the life weāve built, the lessons sheās taught me without even trying.
The beginning of our story wasnāt glamorous. It wasnāt planned. It was raw, unexpected, and perfectly imperfect. But itās ours. And looking back, I wouldnāt change a thing. Because sometimes, the best parts of life arenāt the ones you planātheyāre the ones that find you when you least expect them.
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